Joe B OjedaSpecialist FourHHC, 1ST BN, 5TH INFANTRY, 25 INF DIV Army of the United States 26 May 1947 - 09 December 1969 Corpus Christi, Texas Panel 15W Line 043 |
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Photo courtesy of his fianc� Barbara Hill If you knew Joe, please contact her at barbarahill647@hotmail.com |
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Joe and I met on a blind date in Hawaii when I was on vacation and he was on R&R. My roommate had met a young serviceman from Illinois and he asked her out that evening. She said she'd only go if he had a friend for her friend. When I first saw Joe I fell in love with him. Little did I know that it was love at first sight for him too. We spent the following day exploring Honolulu and eventually wound up at the Honolulu Zoo where he proposed at 2:10 in the afternoon (yes, I looked at my watch - I wanted to remember every detail). We spent the rest of his R&R together, falling deeper in love. We never talked about the war, just the future and our hopes and dreams. I have never regretted my decision. I knew he was the man I wanted to spend the rest of my life with. Sometimes you just know when the right person comes into your life. Unfortunately, servicemen could not marry without permission due to the fact that so many met young women who wanted to get married to get into the States. I wasn't one of them. Joe was born in Matehuala, Mexico. (I think the spelling is wrong but it's phonetically correct). He was orphaned by the age of 4 and with a younger brother he was raised in a Catholic Church-run orphanage in Mexico. His older sister and brother had come to the US (each on their own) to Corpus Christi. They raised families and were eventually able to save enough money to bring the two younger brothers to the US. Joe graduated from W B Ray High School in Corpus Christi, then got drafted. We wanted to settle in Michigan, on the shores of Lake Michigan, when his tour was over and we could raise our family there. When we were together he didn't talk about Viet Nam until the last evening. He did send me some pictures of him while on duty there. They are in a photo album with pictures from his childhood which his sister gave me. I know that he had a Purple Heart when we met (found that out later after he died) and, of course, received a Purple Heart for his mortal injuries, plus a Bronze Star with Oak Leaf cluster. The picture you see was taken just hours after he became an American citizen. He was so proud. I still have the American flag they gave all the new citizens and the yellow plastic lei which they received in honor of Aloha Week. They are with the letters which he wrote to me, including one he wrote just before his last mission. Joe was buried on a warm, sunny December day with full military honors. He rests in Rose Hill Memorial Park in Corpus Christi.
Barbara Hill You saw me mourning for you and you touched my hand. I knew you loved me. Forever and always loved, Barbara 04 Dec 2001
Deep in my heart a memory is kept 24 May 2002
Happy Birthday Joe.
Your memory is my keepsake with which I'll never part 24 Oct 2002
May the winds of love blow softly and whisper so you'll hear,
Remembering October 24, 1969,
Lovingly remembered always, 09 Dec 2002
Dear Joe -
Forever in my heart, loved always, Barbara
02 May 2003 Remembering a Wonderful Man Some people come into our lives and quickly go. Some stay for awhile and leave footprints on our hearts. And we are never, ever the same. It still seems like yesterday when you left me. The footprints are still there even after all these years. Thank you for coming into my life. I miss you every day.
Love, Barbara
26 May 2003 Joe, today would have been your 56th birthday. HAPPY BIRTHDAY!! And it's also Memorial Day. I will visit you in spirit at the Memorial today. I think of you today with love, but that is nothing new. My thoughts were with you yesterday and the day before that too. Remembering you comes easy, I do it every day. Missing you is the heartache that never goes away. Although I cannot hold you, you will be forever held deep within my heart. Although I cannot see you with my eyes, I will picture you always in my mind and what was, and what could have been. Know that you are loved and that you made a special place within my life and I will cherish you always. As a song goes: "The road is long with many a winding turn". It has made the trip through life easier knowing that you are always at my side. You have gone first and I remain. But there is something I want you to do. Walk slowly down that long lonely road for someday I'll follow you. I want to know each step you take so that I may walk the same. For when I travel down that long and lonely road, you'll hear me call your name. Remembering you today, on your birthday, and always ... a very special man, the man of my life.
Love always and forever, Barbara 24 Oct 2003 34 years ago today you became a proud new U.S. citizen. 34 years ago tomorrow we stood at Fort DeRussy waiting for the bus to take you to the airport for the flight back to Vietnam. I remember that day as if it was yesterday. You sat so straight in your seat staring out the front window. You never looked back. If you had we would have seen tears in the other's eyes. I felt so lonely when the bus pulled away and then was no longer in sight. I miss you today as much as I did then. You're just a "breath away".
Love always and forever, Barbara
11 Nov 2003
Quietly remembered this Veteran's Day 2003. May 26, 1947 to December 9, 1969 To my darling Joe: If I was granted but one wish, I wouldn't ask for a mansion, an expensive car, or wealth. I would ask for one more day with you. To walk along the beach hand-in-hand, to have one more dance, and to tell you how much I love you. I can't believe it's been 34 years. It seems like yesterday. Days go by but the emptiness remains. I miss you so much.
Love always and forever, Barbara xxoo
24 Dec 2003 Another Christmas without you. The last time we were together I asked you what you wanted most for Christmas. You replied "You" and we both laughed. Then you asked for a small tree with twinkling white lights. Now whenever I see a tree with twinkling white lights it brings back memories. Wonderful memories. I miss you.
Love always and forever, Barbara
30 Dec 2003 As another year ends and another begins, I miss you so much.
Love always and forever, Barbara
15 Feb 2004
I miss you so much, Joe. I miss your smile and your gentle ways. I miss hearing your laughter but then again sometimes in the quiet of the night I hear your gentle voice whispering my name. I visited your grave this week. The emptiness I felt was overwhelming. Even after all these years, the tears still flow. Love always and forever. Barbara xoxo
26 May 2004 This comes with all my love for you on your birthday. Another birthday celebrated without you. It seems like an eternity since I heard your voice or saw your face. Today brings a world of loving thanks for our wonderful time together and a wish that you were here with me today. I miss you so very much. Happy 57th birthday Joe. Love you always and forever. Barbara
PS. Geminis aren't supposed to get along well together. We proved them wrong!
30 Jul 2004
Closing my eyes and taking the time, I can hear your voice and feel your hand in mine. And deep in my heart I know that the only thing that mattered came true, for in this life I was loved by you. Remembered always with love, Barbara xoxoxo
17 Sep 2004 Joe, I feel your presence as you walk beside me every day, always looking after me, protecting me, loving me. When I'm sad, I feel your "hug" and when I'm happy I sense you laughing beside me. Wish you were here. I miss you so much. Love always and forever, Barbara
25 Oct 2004 35 years ago today, October 25th, we said goodbye at the bus before you returned to the airport for your flight back to Vietnam. You held me tight and promised to come home. How I wish you could hold me again. Loved you then, love you now, and will love you forever and a day. Barbara XOXO
09 Dec 2004 May 26, 1947 to December 9, 1969 35 years ago today my mother told me that your sister had sent me a telegram to say that you had been "killed in action". My heart shattered in a thousand pieces. Time does not heal the pain. I miss you so much. The "soldier" at the funeral told me "I brought Joe home. He loved you very much." At the cemetary he told me "Joe is at peace now. He knows you will be all right." Thank you for sending the angel. Joe, I held you close in my heart today, it made me feel complete. You may have died but you are not gone, you will always be part of me. 'Til we are together again. Loving you always and forever, Barbara.
28 Dec 2004
As one year ends and another is about to begin, my thoughts drift back to that time so long ago when we were young and so much in love. We had so many plans for the future. We could hardly wait for 1970 for soon you would be home. I waited for your call. But, alas, it was not meant to be. As much as I needed you here with me, God needed you more. I miss you so much but I know you walk beside me every day. Just a breath away. Forever loved, Barbara.
8 Feb 2005 Valentine's Day 2005 You are not just a memory or a part of the past, you're mine to remember as long as life lasts.
Loving you forever, Barbara
6 May 2005 For Joe on his birthday, May 26th
From the moment I saw you, I wanted to meet you. And from that moment to this moment, and for all the moments to come, Joe, I will love you with all my heart.
Love always and forever, Barbara
15 Oct 2005
The time goes by so quickly. But the pain never goes away. My sorrow is still great but so are the memories and my love for you. You're not here to share in all that has happened since you left but I know in my heart you are always near. Joe, I feel your presence as you walk beside me. Not a day goes by that you are not in my thoughts. Every day in some small way there are memories of you. The sun comes up each day and sets each night but the loneliness is always there. And though the years have been many they will always be filled with my love for you. Rest in peace, my love, for one day God will take me by the hand and lead me straight to you. With all my love now and forever, Barbara.
09 Dec 2005
Joe, I can shed tears that you are gone.
My love always, 14 Feb 2006 VALENTINE'S DAY 2006
The time goes by so quickly. But the pain never goes away. My sorrow is still great but so are the memories and my love for you. You�re not here to share in all that has happened since you left but I know in my heart you are always near. I feel your presence as you walk beside me. Not a day goes by that you are not in my thoughts. Every day in some small way I have memories of you. And though the years have been many, they have always been filled with my love for you. Rest in peace, Joe, for one day God will take me by the hand and lead me straight to you. Love always and forever, Barbara
Happy birthday Joe.
Forever missed.
Always in my heart. Barbara xoxo 23 Oct 2006
October 25th. It has been a lifetime since you left. I miss you beyond belief but I know you are still with me. I find you in the letters you wrote. I find you in the photographs of our time in Hawaii, in songs we danced to, and in the collective memory of your family. But mostly I find you in my heart. A presence that is subtle, elusive, intangible and yet, just as close as faith will allow us to get. When you are with me, my heart has the capacity to love as deeply as I grieve and my mind finds a way to remember the wonderful time we had together. There are still no answers when I ask why you had to die, just peace in knowing you continue to touch my life. I miss you so much. I love you now and will forever, Barbara.
December 9, 2006
Thirty-seven years ago today I lost you, the love of my life. I remember meeting you for the first time all those years ago. I knew then that I wanted to be with you forever. Thank you for all the wonderful memories. I wish we could do it all over again. You will always be my "prince". Love always and forever, Barbara
23 Dec 2006
Joe, remembering you in special ways this Christmas season. I miss you so much. Love always and forever. Love, Barbara
February 14, 2007 Happy Valentine's Day, Joe. The love is felt even when the being is gone. Love is the only thing that is eternal, and Joe you are eternally loved. My memories are a constant reminder of how much I loved you, and how much you loved me. I will always miss you and love you. Memories of you I will pass on to those you loved and touched, carrying you through the ages. Eternally mine, for my heart is eternally yours. With love, always and forever.
Barbara
02 Jul 2007
My dearest love, you are always on
With eternal love, Barbara
18 Oct 2007
The world has had some changes since you have been gone, Joe, but one thing that will never change is the love I still hold in my heart for you. I will always miss you and wonder if this sadness I feel will ever go away. I find myself living in two worlds, the past and the present. In the past we were together and happy. I smile because you are with me and you are the most important part of everything I do. In the present, Joe, I am always looking for you and I am lonely because you are no longer here. You are a living presence each and every day. I have special memories of our time together, and these memories will never die. The sound of your voice and laughter are as clear in my mind today as they were when you were here. Your quiet strength and warm tenderness lives quietly inside of me to warm all my days as each comes along. I am always conscious of feeling close to you, and your presence never leaves me. I am beginning to learn that your life was a loving gift to me, and although you are far away, my love goes out to you every day, and in my heart you are living still. It's our love that makes my memories too precious to forget, and makes my sorrow easier to bear. I will always love you, Joe. Your loving fiance, forever, Barbara
09 Dec 2007
Thirty-eight years ago you left. While the deep sorrow remains, wonderful memories sustain me always. As I loved you, so I miss you. In my memory you are near, loved, remembered, longed for always. Bringing many a silent tear. I have looked for answers. I tried to understand but no one could tell me why. I couldn't comprehend. Someone once asked me "So� are you over it yet?". No harm was meant. Nor was it meant to be mean. Folks just doesn't understand. There is no getting over it. At least for me there's not. I can't erase those images of our time together. Memories of you are forever in my heart. Life does go on. I will persevere. I won't forget. And I miss you, more than ever, my darling Joe. Today, I don't look for answers. I can't heal a mortal wound. It just takes time to find peace. It takes time to be with you again. Barbara
From his fiance, Barbara Hill barbarahill647@hotmail.com
Prior to his death, Joe had been awarded the Army Commendation Medal for heroism, National Defense Service Medal, Vietnam Service Medal with one bronze service star, Vietnam Campaign Medal, Sharpshooter Badge with track weapon bar, and the Marksman Badge with rifle, machine gun, automatic rifle, and pistol bars. They were presented to Joe's brother in 1970 by a representative of the Fourth United States Army, Fort Sam Houston, TX.
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Barbara, I did not know Joe - and just happened upon this page. But your love for him and your keeping it alive is worthy of any words and thoughts I can send you. I hope you have found happiness in your life. You seem like the type of woman who would have made Joe very proud and honored to have called his wife. Your story reminds me of a song sung by Sting: "The Secret Marriage"
No earthly church has ever blessed our union
No debt was paid no dowry to be gained
The secret marriage vow is never spoken
No flowers on the alter
The secret marriage vow is never spoken Good luck to you ... and may your life always be filled with love and happiness.
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01 Jun 2003 Dear Joe, What an honor and a pleasure it would have been for me to have known you. Now all I know about you is what I have read in this Memorial to you. We could have been cousins or related, no doubt, for I am an Ojeda from Austin, Texas. My Grandfather came to small surrounding towns near Austin. He traveled with three brothers and a sister fron San Luis Potosi, Mexico, in the middle 1800's. His name was Mucio Ojeda. My father's name was Cecilio C. Ojeda and I am Nelda Ojeda Savoy. There is much I could tell you about the Ojeda family, they are all over the US and the world over. I know, I met many of them in my travels. I also have relatives in Corpus Christi. I go there every so often. The love that you had for such a short time with Barbara is eternal. I have read all her letters to you and you were and are Loved. You are her Hero and now I will claim you as mine. Many times that I went to The Wall in DC, I cried. I placed flowers and flags not knowing you were there, but blood calls and they were for you. I lived in DC for nearly 30 years. You have earned your crown in Glory, you were so brave, you gave your life to keep us safe. Now you have a special place in my heart. Que Dios te tenga en su Santa Gloria. Tu familia, Nelda Ojeda Savoy |
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God bless you and yours.
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Joe,
"We few, we happy few, we band of brothers; God speed, My Brother.
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Joe, I came across your picture on The Virtual Wall... I read the memorial to you from Barbara ... She still loves you after all these years ... I did a picture composite for Barbara of you ... What I could not believe while I was reading your Memorial was that you were born on my Birthday and died on my brother's Birthday. You were really handsome, and I can see why Barbara fell in love with you at first sight. I know your family misses and loves you also ... I know right now you are now serving the Supreme Commander, and you are happier than we are right now.
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Joe, I never knew you in person.
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With all respect
Jim Schueckler, former CW2, US Army
Ken Davis, Commander, United States Navy (Ret)
Memorial first published on 03 Aug 2001
Last updated 08/10/2009